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EMDR & Trauma Therapy

My Approach 

Beginning trauma therapy can feel daunting. Many people carry fears about becoming overwhelmed or opening experiences that may feel unmanageable. These concerns make sense; trauma often involves moments that were too much to hold alone.

Trauma therapy does not mean reliving everything or moving faster than feels safe. Healing happens through care, pacing, and choice, with attention to building stability and support. Our work will unfold in a way that respects both what you’ve been through and what you’re ready for now.

I offer trauma-informed psychotherapy, including EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), for adults who are impacted by past or ongoing traumatic experiences. Trauma may stem from a single event, repeated relational harm, or long-term exposure to stress that exceeded your capacity to cope at the time. 

 

I completed basic EMDR training through EMDR Cleveland, an EMDRIA-approved training provider. I approach EMDR as a relational and collaborative process. Before beginning reprocessing memories, we take time to build internal supports, strengthen resources, and develop a sense of safety and readiness. This foundation helps the work feel steady and contained, supporting your ability to remain grounded as experiences are integrated in a way that feels sustainable and respectful.

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What is EMDR?

EMDR is an evidence-based approach widely used to support trauma processing and recovery. EMDR is not used as a stand-alone technique, but as part of a broader, relational, somatic, and thoughtfully paced therapeutic process.

EMDR is a structured therapy designed to help the brain process distressing or traumatic experiences that remain “stuck.” EMDR supports the processing of these memories, helping them settle into the past rather than continue to shape the present.

 

Rather than focusing primarily on talking through events, EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (such as eye movements or alternating tactile input) to support adaptive information processing. Adaptive information processing aids the brain’s capacity to take in experiences, make meaning of them, and store them in a way that allows the past to stay in the past.

 

Many clients find that EMDR helps reduce the emotional intensity, bodily activation, and intrusive thoughts associated with traumatic memories, while supporting greater clarity and integration of new insights or perspectives.

How Trauma is Treated

Effective trauma therapy focuses on more than symptom management. Treatment often includes:

  • Supporting nervous system regulation and safety

  • Increasing awareness of triggers and patterns

  • Processing traumatic memories in a contained and intentional way

  • Integrating past experiences so they no longer dominate the present

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EMDR may be one part of this process when appropriate, alongside relational and somatic support, pacing, and ongoing integration.

Trauma healing is not linear and does not require revisiting everything at once. My approach emphasizes collaboration, consent, and respect for your pace. Some clients come to EMDR with a specific memory or event in mind; others begin by building stability and resourcing before engaging in trauma processing.

Therapy offers a supportive space to work toward healing and growth in a way that feels steady, contained, and sustainable.

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Trauma and the Nervous System 

 

Trauma is not defined solely by what happened, but by how the nervous system was impacted. When an experience overwhelms the nervous system, it may not be fully processed, leaving the body and mind in a state of ongoing threat or dysregulation.

 

Trauma can show up in many ways, including:

  • Anxiety, panic, or chronic hypervigilance

  • Emotional numbing or disconnection

  • Intrusive memories or flashbacks

  • Difficulty sleeping or concentrating

  • Irritability or emotional reactivity

  • A persistent sense of shame, fear, or self-blame

  • Feeling “on edge” or shut down without a clear reason

These responses are not signs of weakness but instead are adaptive survival responses that no longer serve their original purpose.

Marissa Patsey, LPCC

Psychotherapy

12417 Cedar Rd

Cleveland Heights, OH 44106

(440) 941-7670

©2026 by Marissa Patsey LPCC

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